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I am a well educated progressive thinking non-smoking guy who has been separated for 5 years. While I have lots of friends and acquaintances I miss having a special woman friend for more intimate relations.

I'm not just talking about sex (now don't get me wrong I like it a lot!!) but also holding hands, snuggling on the couch watching TV, going for walks and just laughing/playing together.



I like most kinds of music (classical, folk, bluegrass, 50/60's rock) and like going to music festivals.



I like home cooking (do some myself) and red wine. I like to play card games and Scrabble & read good books.



What do I look like - well I'm kind of a bushy haired guy with a Tom Mulcair beard (going grey) about 5 foot 10 tall and with a heavy build.I guess you would call me average looking (not Tom Cruise but not the hunchback of Notre Dame either!!)



I'm NOT into fancy dress and fancy restaurants and I must admit I am not much of a dancer - but I do like holding a woman close while soft music plays in the background.



I like going to the local Y for the aquafit classes, working out on the weight machines and generally BS-ing with people there.



I have two children from my first marriage who are 32 and 35 (both with developmental problems) and no grandchildren.



I would like to find a sensous older woman who would have time to develop a lasting relationship.



Last of all - why the name Cambridge Cat Man??



That's because I live with Buddy the Cat, a 19 year old cat that I somehow got custody of from my first wife when she moved into a no pets condo. She called me up crying & said she was going to have to get rid of him & the kids were crying too so I took him in and now he lives with me until death do us part - since he is 19 years old that might only be a few years.



Now why talk about my cat?? - well it shows that even after I breakup/divorce a person I sill maintain a cordial relationship. Also it shows that I am a cat person & not a dog person - I am OK with dogs but I love cats.



What do I like on TV - I like to watch National Geographic, Discovery Channel, TVO, CBC and WNED.

Aries

Heavyset

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Hazel

European

Separated

Yes - Not At Home

No

Hair

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Salt And Pepper

Cat

No

College Degree

Retired

Retired

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Brain

Observant, Reserved

Exercising, Internet, Games, Playing Cards, Reading, Tv

Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Staying At Home

Some place where you can talk quietly with the other person while stll having a good time.

A few consensual kinky things.

Friendly

Agnostic

Never

Socialist

Enjoy myself but leave things better for my having been around.

Clever, Friendly

News, Documentaries, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Documentary, Thriller

Classical, Folk

History, Political, Science, Science Fiction

I like to talk about ideas. I like to snuggle on the couch and hold hands. I like to play cards and drink wine with friends.
I like to have sex with a loving and passionate partner.

Empathy, Humor, Intelligence, Thoughtfullness, Wit

A lady in the living room & a wild thing in the bedroom.

Friend, Date, Just Wanna Fuck